There are over 2 million single gay men and women in the UK, many of them looking for the love of their life. You'd think there really must be someone for everyone.
But meeting new people can be hard work and it can take a number of dates before you meet someone who could be right for you. more
We've heard it a thousand times before ... You've got to be happy in yourself before you can be happy in a relationship.
There's something intuitive about it. It sounds like sensible advice but is it really true that you can't find a fulfilling relationship until you're 100% happy with yourself? more
Paula is a UKCP Registered Relationship Psychotherapist who is also accredited by the BACP and BASRT more